Compartmentalize your relationships and activities to win, was the idea given by Bandopadhyay, the first woman Air Marshal of Indian Air Force. Hers was a love marriage and she married a fish-loving Bengali. But she comes from an orthodox family down south which cannot stand fish. So, she compartmentalized her cooking to serve the needs of both her parents and in-laws.
Drawing more from her insights, we need to compartmentalize work from home, success stories from jealous listeners, and modern trends from surprised parents ;)