Visited Patti's www.37days.typepad.com after a long time and i stumbled upon this beautiful quote she had quoted.
"Have patience with everything that remains unsolved in your heart. Try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books written in a foreign language. Do not now look for the answers. They cannot now be given to you because you could not live them. It is a question of experiencing everything. At present you need to live the question. Perhaps you will gradually, without even noticing it, find yourself experiencing the answer, some distant day." - from Rainer Maris Rilke's "Letters to a Young Poet."